April 20th 2011
Plenty of Fish or Plentyoffish found at www.plentyoffish.com is a wonderful site to meet nice ladies. I have met woman of all ages, marrital status and back grounds. With POF you can make your searches for whom ever you might like based on many parameters. I have yet to figure out what Bonnie was thinking when she first contacted me in early January 2011. We talked for hours after many sessions of emails. Then we met for one wonderful evening. Both of us thought it was ging to be the beginning of a wonderful time. Then two days later she calls me to inform me that she is going back with her most recent boyfriend.
I was bumbed by that but something told me she would be back.
Jump three months later and sure enough we are talking on the phone again. This time it is more tens for both of us. We plan to meet again....she was planning on spending the night. We are both hot for each other.
We meet at a local dance bar. We had some food and she even offered to pay for part of it. We danced and had a drink. We were there at 6:30. I rode with my roommate and she drove in her sons car...this allowed her to spend the night if she chooses. I rode with my roommate so that Bonnie will drive me home...after all we both seemed to expect she will spend the night. She knows I am a gental man and will not force myself on her. So we have some good converstaions and laughs. A Beer each and we are fine.
Now you would think tht by kissing a girl if you like each other it woiuld be nice. That it was we both liked that kissing real well. She liked it so well that she decides she has to go home for the night! I must say I was a bit disappointed but also totally for the idea. If she spent the night then we might not of gotten sleep. If we did she will still want to be there until her appointment at 1. I was also feeling down about the lack of work accomplishments.
It was a lovely evening but short. She was gone by 10. She did not want to stay for it might be to much to soon. She really wanted my body, as I did her, but she was the one that put the breaks on it. Just make us wait builds up the energy or tension.
To tired to write more.
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Friday, February 25, 2011
Most wonderful Tuesday
I know no one is reading this, so i will just type away for my own sake.
ON Tuesday, I spent the whole day with Nette, not her real name but the name I will use for her.
She had requested that I do some projects that she is not able or willing to do in her house that had to be done. I told her I would love to and all I had to do was set aside a day to do them. Please make a full list and we will knock them out. We both agreed that this will give us something to do together and it will help her with her goals.
On Tuesday I showed up at her house at 9:30 Feb 22, 2011. It was wonderful to see her. She greeted me at the door with a great big kiss. We got started on the projects right away.
Simple things. Replace lights in oven. Both were out, one was missing the protection cover and that bulb was stuck in the socket. It took some work to get the base of the old one out, but finally I removed it and put in the new bulbs.
Pull out the stove and Frig so that she can clean under them.
Install a light fixture in the basement, a place that was dark and frequently used. This required getting a fixture and installing it onto a junction box. There is no fixture that fits on the junction box that was not intended to have a fixture attached. I McGivered it by modifying the box and putting a rubber gasket to make sure that there would be no shorts. It took some effort but after a while and creativity I managed to get it installed. She absolutely loved it.
Then I installed hooks to run a cloths line around in the basement. Before she had the line attached to what ever was handy. A hot water pipe, a support bracket for the AC, and other places of which were creating a problem if left like that.
Brought in wood for the fire place and cleaned up the yard of branches.
Attached the Faxed. It was not hooked into the phone lines.
Replace 8 foot florescent bulbs in garage and the bulbs for the Garage door opener.
Fixed the wheel on the garbage bin.
After it was all done, she was so thrilled. She fixed me a nice dinner and before we had dinner, I asked about an appetizer. She assumed that what I was asking was for us to make love. Now we have never done that before. Oh we have had some real intimate times before and that is what I was kinda suggesting, but she was thinking more! I was thrown off by that in that all along she is saying she did not want to go to far for several reasons. One she wants me to respect her. Two, she did not want to be possessed by a man.
I was totally amazed that she wanted to go in the finished basement and make love on her daughters bed! It was one of the best times I had spent and it was really good sex! I am 58 and have been having some problems with ED and was concerned that for the first time I might not be up to my glory. Not a problem! The little guy (and I was told not so little ) performed just as needed! She later told me how pleased she was as to how I made love and it made her feel wonderful. I was ecstatic !
After that wonderful half hour we got dressed, her son was up stairs so we did not want to risk getting caught. That was the main reason we went downstairs. Her son is 25 so he would understand but we both prefer that he does not know. Heck after all we have known each other since the 9th of this month. The daughter stays at her house every other week, so this was the week she is not home.
As far as a blog, this is probably not to exciting, so I apologize but this is mostly for me and I really do not care who has read this.
After our wonderful little passion session we went up stairs to a wonderful meal of meat loaf, twice baked potatoes, vegetables and salad. Then we retired to the living room and watched a movie. I do not remember what it was....gosh perhaps I was more into her then the movie...ya think?
I left there at 12:30 am with a big smile on my face and hopes of seeing her again soon.
ON Tuesday, I spent the whole day with Nette, not her real name but the name I will use for her.
She had requested that I do some projects that she is not able or willing to do in her house that had to be done. I told her I would love to and all I had to do was set aside a day to do them. Please make a full list and we will knock them out. We both agreed that this will give us something to do together and it will help her with her goals.
On Tuesday I showed up at her house at 9:30 Feb 22, 2011. It was wonderful to see her. She greeted me at the door with a great big kiss. We got started on the projects right away.
Simple things. Replace lights in oven. Both were out, one was missing the protection cover and that bulb was stuck in the socket. It took some work to get the base of the old one out, but finally I removed it and put in the new bulbs.
Pull out the stove and Frig so that she can clean under them.
Install a light fixture in the basement, a place that was dark and frequently used. This required getting a fixture and installing it onto a junction box. There is no fixture that fits on the junction box that was not intended to have a fixture attached. I McGivered it by modifying the box and putting a rubber gasket to make sure that there would be no shorts. It took some effort but after a while and creativity I managed to get it installed. She absolutely loved it.
Then I installed hooks to run a cloths line around in the basement. Before she had the line attached to what ever was handy. A hot water pipe, a support bracket for the AC, and other places of which were creating a problem if left like that.
Brought in wood for the fire place and cleaned up the yard of branches.
Attached the Faxed. It was not hooked into the phone lines.
Replace 8 foot florescent bulbs in garage and the bulbs for the Garage door opener.
Fixed the wheel on the garbage bin.
After it was all done, she was so thrilled. She fixed me a nice dinner and before we had dinner, I asked about an appetizer. She assumed that what I was asking was for us to make love. Now we have never done that before. Oh we have had some real intimate times before and that is what I was kinda suggesting, but she was thinking more! I was thrown off by that in that all along she is saying she did not want to go to far for several reasons. One she wants me to respect her. Two, she did not want to be possessed by a man.
I was totally amazed that she wanted to go in the finished basement and make love on her daughters bed! It was one of the best times I had spent and it was really good sex! I am 58 and have been having some problems with ED and was concerned that for the first time I might not be up to my glory. Not a problem! The little guy (and I was told not so little ) performed just as needed! She later told me how pleased she was as to how I made love and it made her feel wonderful. I was ecstatic !
After that wonderful half hour we got dressed, her son was up stairs so we did not want to risk getting caught. That was the main reason we went downstairs. Her son is 25 so he would understand but we both prefer that he does not know. Heck after all we have known each other since the 9th of this month. The daughter stays at her house every other week, so this was the week she is not home.
As far as a blog, this is probably not to exciting, so I apologize but this is mostly for me and I really do not care who has read this.
After our wonderful little passion session we went up stairs to a wonderful meal of meat loaf, twice baked potatoes, vegetables and salad. Then we retired to the living room and watched a movie. I do not remember what it was....gosh perhaps I was more into her then the movie...ya think?
I left there at 12:30 am with a big smile on my face and hopes of seeing her again soon.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Online Dating
This is my first blog. I have wanted to blog for a long time but was not sure if I care if anyone reads this or not. I saw the moving Social Network, it brought up some interesting things about what this might do for or against a person. I am just stumbling around with this for now to see what I want to do.
It is my intention to relate my experiences with On line dating and the stories I hear or experience while going through this process. I intend to relate my experiences, thoughts and feelings as I go. I am looking for comments from both men and women about my blog but also about your related experiences.
I have been on the online dating on and off for over 7 years now. Sometimes I was in an unsatisfactory relationship but just could not give it up, but wanted to see what else was out there. Other times I was serious about finding a nice woman to settle down with and other times just someone to date. In those years I have met some wonderful women and some are still friends today.
The various sites I have visited range from the simple bullatine board type of thing, like Craigs List. To the expensive ones like Eharmony. My favorite to date is plenty of fish. It is free and it allows you to do searches in all kinds of criteria, plus it allows one to past many pictures. Okcupid is another free one, that I like, but have had poor results in.
Plenty of Fish is the one I like the most and am using it now.
Recently I found this most wonderful woman whom has got me to thinking about making my profile invisible and eventually deleting it, if we work out as I hope. This is very rare for me....as I said I had been on these sites for over 7 years.
In those years I have assisted men and women rewrite their profile with the result of better quality dates for them. I thought my profile was just fine for the results I had recieved....until recently.
You see the one that I met recently offered to rewrite my profile. It was perplexing that she offered. She is a professional writer with a very interesting business. She writes life stories for people. People hire her to interview their loved one and document the interview in a well written format. It is a very valuable piece for their families. I have actually flipped over this woman and I thought she has of me, until today when she offered to rewrite my profile. We shall she what she does with it.
Up until just last week, I was corrosponding with several women. I like them all but as I make arrangements to meet them, I find that there is no Chemistry. If not I might still see them if there is good conversation and mutual interest. If I kiss them, and the kiss is not enjoyable then it usually is that last I will see them. I find that a poor kisser will not be a good lover. I want a good lover too.
Since I am in my late 50's I find that my little guy...better known as Spike, does not jump to the occassion as he use to in earlier years. I think he is getting smarter. I thought that when he would sleep and I wanted him to participate that perhaps ED was an issue. By going out with various women I discovered that he only worked when there was some Chemistry going on. By knowing this, I have avoided the embarrassment of being with a woman and not being able to perform. So embarrassing on the first attempt too.
I put this out there to anyone who bothers to read this. Have you ever been participant in a situation when an erection was wanted but did not happen? This applies to both men and women. As with women, if you are not aroused enough, who would know? Sure if you are not wet then you just get some lubricant, but if the guy is not hard...your sunk! So what happened? What to do about it?
Also I want comments on your online dating experiences. What have you done, what are you looking for. What do you expect on the first date? How about some successful stories or some horror stories. I will post most of them...heck if I even get a one I will probably post it.
I do not know how anomalous this blog will remain. I will not tell anyone I know about it, nor will I reveal your identity, so lets talk openly about this. If you think you know me, please ask, for it could be real embarrassing and unfair. Unfair in that I do not like someone knowing something of me but I do not know that same info about them. Makes for unfair playing field.
It is my intention to relate my experiences with On line dating and the stories I hear or experience while going through this process. I intend to relate my experiences, thoughts and feelings as I go. I am looking for comments from both men and women about my blog but also about your related experiences.
I have been on the online dating on and off for over 7 years now. Sometimes I was in an unsatisfactory relationship but just could not give it up, but wanted to see what else was out there. Other times I was serious about finding a nice woman to settle down with and other times just someone to date. In those years I have met some wonderful women and some are still friends today.
The various sites I have visited range from the simple bullatine board type of thing, like Craigs List. To the expensive ones like Eharmony. My favorite to date is plenty of fish. It is free and it allows you to do searches in all kinds of criteria, plus it allows one to past many pictures. Okcupid is another free one, that I like, but have had poor results in.
Plenty of Fish is the one I like the most and am using it now.
Recently I found this most wonderful woman whom has got me to thinking about making my profile invisible and eventually deleting it, if we work out as I hope. This is very rare for me....as I said I had been on these sites for over 7 years.
In those years I have assisted men and women rewrite their profile with the result of better quality dates for them. I thought my profile was just fine for the results I had recieved....until recently.
You see the one that I met recently offered to rewrite my profile. It was perplexing that she offered. She is a professional writer with a very interesting business. She writes life stories for people. People hire her to interview their loved one and document the interview in a well written format. It is a very valuable piece for their families. I have actually flipped over this woman and I thought she has of me, until today when she offered to rewrite my profile. We shall she what she does with it.
Up until just last week, I was corrosponding with several women. I like them all but as I make arrangements to meet them, I find that there is no Chemistry. If not I might still see them if there is good conversation and mutual interest. If I kiss them, and the kiss is not enjoyable then it usually is that last I will see them. I find that a poor kisser will not be a good lover. I want a good lover too.
Since I am in my late 50's I find that my little guy...better known as Spike, does not jump to the occassion as he use to in earlier years. I think he is getting smarter. I thought that when he would sleep and I wanted him to participate that perhaps ED was an issue. By going out with various women I discovered that he only worked when there was some Chemistry going on. By knowing this, I have avoided the embarrassment of being with a woman and not being able to perform. So embarrassing on the first attempt too.
I put this out there to anyone who bothers to read this. Have you ever been participant in a situation when an erection was wanted but did not happen? This applies to both men and women. As with women, if you are not aroused enough, who would know? Sure if you are not wet then you just get some lubricant, but if the guy is not hard...your sunk! So what happened? What to do about it?
Also I want comments on your online dating experiences. What have you done, what are you looking for. What do you expect on the first date? How about some successful stories or some horror stories. I will post most of them...heck if I even get a one I will probably post it.
I do not know how anomalous this blog will remain. I will not tell anyone I know about it, nor will I reveal your identity, so lets talk openly about this. If you think you know me, please ask, for it could be real embarrassing and unfair. Unfair in that I do not like someone knowing something of me but I do not know that same info about them. Makes for unfair playing field.
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